Summary
Probably the single most complex and destructive factor in the life of many Believers is unwise and careless sexual activity. I have recently been exposed to a situation in which such conduct has had massive unintended consequences and so I want to share a few case studies that may help others to understand factors like these that may be having similar consequences in their lives. I frequently hear from Believers who are battling financially and these factors are potentially at play in many, if not most, such situations.
Following through on the previous article about the “Implications of Careless Sexual Activity” (https://www.etimin.org/implications-of-careless-sexual-activity), further ramifications have become evident. Specifically that it is NOT easy to cut the one flesh bonds resulting from careless sexual activity and that attempts to do this unrighteously amount to Treachery and will fail. These issues are discussed below.
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Preamble
Good day!
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Today we'll continue to talk about the Implications of Careless Sexual Activity and then we'll talk about Unrighteous Divorce is treachery.
The implications of careless sexual activity and Unrighteous “Divorce” is Treachery – Overview
This broadcast continues to look at the Implications of Careless Sexual Activity and then goes on to discuss Unrighteous “Divorce” or “Putting Away.”
It is noted that the love bond endures when the other bonds are cut.
A case study is presented of the consequences of one unwise sexual incident.
Another case study is presented where unwise lovemaking cost millions.
It is noted that the legal basis for divorce is stringent and uncompromising.
Reference is made to applicable prayers for divorce.
A further article is presented in which it is stated that Unrighteous Divorce is Treachery.
A case study is presented of clandestine sex being treachery.
It is noted that kneejerk “Divorce” is also treachery and further elements of the case are presented.
It is noted that treacherous divorce or putting away is massively destructive.
Finally we will examine the state of YOUR relationship with the Almighty Creator.
Introduction
Who am I? – James Robertson. I have a Doctorate in Engineering and I am a Strategic Management Consultant. I have over 28-1/2 years' experience of actively seeking to draw close to the Almighty following a dramatic encounter with Him on 12th March 1993 when He spoke to me audibly in a locked room and I knew for certain that He was real.
I was confirmed in the Anglican Church at the age of 13 and served as an Altar Boy for a number of years from the age of 19. Eventually, married to an Unbeliever, I became disenchanted with the hypocrisy in the Church and backslid to a point where I was not even sure the Almighty existed. In this backslidden state I embarked on an adulterous affair which, when it ended, left me desperate and suicidal. It was then that the Almighty spoke to me and I realized that my intellect had gotten me into a right mess and I chose to serve Him faithfully for the rest of my life.
In doing this I applied my deep-seated aversion to failure borne out of an accident in early childhood coupled to my Engineering and Military training of rigour and preventing failure, to my seeking of knowledge about Father. This journey led to numerous supernatural experiences, prayers answered and clear communication with the Creator that forms the basis for what I teach in these programs.
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Body of the Article
The Implications of Careless Sexual Activity and Resulting One-Flesh Bonds and Covenants
Continuing on from the last broadcast...
3. The Love-Bond Endures even when the Other Bonds are Cut.
We glibly refer to “making love.” The fact is that sexual intercourse results in the creation of love. The more considerate the love making the stronger the love that comes into existence. Oral stimulation of the sexual organs leading to orgasm also creates love.
The more two people make love the stronger the love-bond becomes. 1 Corinthians 13:8 in the Bible states that “love never dies.” Love endures for eternity unless it is murdered through violence, abuse, angry verbal attack or similar on a sustained basis.
Notwithstanding that a Divorce is granted and the one-flesh bond is broken, the love-bond will endure and tend to bring the couple back together. It will cause them to constantly return to one another unless strongly controlled and managed. It is possible to pray for the love to be shut up and locked away but this requires an ongoing act of the will to give effect to it any time the love urge surfaces.
Folks, if you understand the love bond, you will understand a lot of what happens between people who've been in intense sexual relationship and break up for one reason or another. It's also important to understand that if one partner in a relationship is abusive, they can destroy the love in the other partner, but their love will remain intact if the other partner doesn't fight back. So it results in all sorts of strange behaviour.
4. Case Study: One Unwise Sexual Incident with Impacts that Lasted for over a Decade.
In this case, a man and woman were in a sexual relationship. As a consequence of a number of factors that are not relevant to this article, they got divorced and the one-flesh bond was broken by the Court of Heaven. They had previously built up a substantial love-bond.
He married another woman but the relationship was a bit rocky. One day he contacted the original woman and went to see her. They ended up making love but did not think much of it. Many years later he realized that a Virgins Covenant came into existence which, since he was already married was of necessity a covenant of sharing the man with more than one woman.
Neither party gave much thought to this incident. In the years that followed the man was in constant financial difficulty. He did not go back to the first woman, he divorced his wife, married another. Financial difficulties persisted. He left his country and immigrated believing that the problem with his finances related to the economy of the country. He battled to build a business in the new country.
At no time did it occur to him that the problem related to this one-flesh bond and covenant. Eventually, it occurred to him that his house must be divided and after prayer and fasting he finally realized that the problem was caused by the abovementioned one-flesh bond. After further discussion and negotiation he finally was permitted by the Court of Heaven to divorce the first woman and the situation came to an end.
So one episode of sexual intercourse lasting less than an hour crippled the man and his subsequent wife financially for over five years.
If one is battling financially it is vital to examine one’s sexual history in detail. One incident of sex can have HUGE financial consequences.
I constantly come across committed believers who are in financial lack. Many of them are in countries in Africa and in Asia where poverty is widespread and so you can look at that and say, well, it's just the country, there's conditions in the country where they live. However, there's substantial evidence that Father will bless you and prosper you even in a drought or a famine if you are in right standing. So I want to suggest for your consideration that if you are battling financially, one of the key things may be that at some time in your life, you or your wife or your husband or wife had sex with somebody else who's no longer living with you. It only needs to be one instance of sex, and this comes into effect. You've got to be really so careful. And if you have got that, you need to clean up. We'll talk about that a bit later.
5. Case Study: Unwise Love-Making that Cost Millions
In this case the man concerned, who was a strong Believer with a very close relationship with the Almighty, had a limited covenant through two or three incidents of lovemaking with a woman in a country 12,000 miles away from where he lived several years previously that resulted in a covenant that allowed sharing. He met another woman and without forethought and without proper preparation he consummated a Virgins Covenant with her not thinking of the consequences relative to the covenant and one-flesh bond with the first woman. He did not tell the first woman so the house was automatically divided from day one.
In this case the man was employed in an executive position earning a good salary and there were no immediately apparent consequences. The spiritual attack and hindrance for the divided house took effect on the business that was employing the man. Eventually after two years the employer was in such financial difficulty that the man’s remuneration was slashed by 50% -- so two years for the consequences of his unwise sexual congress to directly impact him.
Folks, this is something what I'm talking about today is things that I've only come to understand in the last month or two given these two situations that I'm talking about. If you have one-flesh bonds with – this applies equally to men and women. If you have a one-flesh bond with somebody else and they don't know about it, the house is automatically divided, there is going to be an attack on your finances. I need to stress that this whole article, I'm talking to committed believers. If you're not a committed believer, if you're an unbeliever, these things for the most part are not going to impact you.
Going back to the case study...
The situation was so severe that the company went bankrupt and the remnant was taken over by another company which slashed the remuneration of the man by 80%. In the two years following that company also started to get into financial difficulties such that even that reduced remuneration of the man was at risk. During this period he lost his car, lost his storage locker with all his furniture, books and personal possessions and he racked up massive debts.
At this point, after prayer and fasting finally, the man realized that the problem resulted from his divided house. He prayed to divorce the first woman and proceeded for months assuming that prayer was granted. It was not and the losses continued. Mistakenly he tried to divorce the second woman and that also failed. After several months of turmoil and discussions with the two women concerned the first woman decided she was NOT prepared to share, renounced her covenant of sharing and demanded a divorce. The man took the matter to the Court of Heaven and Yah granted the divorce.
At the time of writing it was stated “It is expected that finances will improve shortly.”
A huge lesson about NOT having sex UNLESS you have A) carefully thought through and discussed things and B) made sure that what you are proposing is workable and viable. I am quite certain that the second woman in the case study I have just presented to you, if she had been told about the first woman and that virgins covenant would come into existence if they made love, she would not have done what she did. She didn’t realize, he was at fault for just taking it for granted that she would understand. So huge, huge things here!
Also a huge lesson is that the error of one strong Believer can affect the finances of a whole group of people, cause losses running to millions and in the last case place the job security of over 100 people at risk.
It subsequently turned out that there was another one-flesh bond that could NOT be divorced and also that there were blood line curses of poverty at play.
Further measures were taken and the situation is still requiring work and prayer.
Lack in the body of true Believers is truly a challenging matter.
Unwise sexual unions can be massively destructive.
So, folks, I said this a few minutes ago, but it just bears repeating. If you are a committed believer and you are in lack, there's a bunch of other things that cause lack. There's an article on the website about Poverty. In fact, there are a couple of articles on the website about Poverty of Believers. But one of the key things that may well be having an effect on you is this thing of unresolved or one-flesh bonds where the house is divided, where they are not in perfect agreement. And so if you're in lack, first thing to check is your marriage, your relationship, whether it's husband with wife, wife with husband, and then to look back on your life and say, did I have a one-night stand when I was a youngster? It could be that that is why you're in lack. You need to go back and ask Father. You need to examine your life. We live in a society that for the most part does not understand what I've just been talking about. And therefore, casual sex, particularly amongst teenagers, is almost condoned and almost expected. If you then become a committed believer, it can have huge consequences. And just praying for it to end doesn't easily end it as we'll see in a minute. So continuing with the case study...
6. Case Study: The Legal Basis for Divorce is Stringent and Uncompromising
In the case of the second case study, the man realized that the house was divided and summarily and reactively prayed to divorce the first woman. He had NO legal basis to do this and the Court of Heaven did NOT grant the divorce. The man continued believing the divorce had been granted and continued to suffer loss. Very careless and very slipshod!
It was only at the end after detailed negotiation when the woman concerned formally declared that, even though she had shared before and her covenant was for sharing, she was NOT prepared to share again and put it in writing, that the Court of Heaven granted a divorce.
It is vital to understand that it is very easy to casually form a one-flesh bond and sexual covenant but the Court of Heaven is strict with regard to granting divorce and divorce is ONLY granted subject to very strict conditions primarily relating to irrevocable Breach of Covenant by one party when the other party has dealt righteously.
It's a complex subject. I thought I understood it a few years ago from these two situations that I've just shared with you, which have come to my knowledge in the last few months. It's in fact much more complex, it's much more stringent than I had understood it to be. You can't just say, "Father, I don't like this person anymore or they live a long way from me and I want someone who's going to live close to me," or whatever. You can't just have a little argument or disagreement, and pray for divorce and have it granted. It's not going to be granted, folks. You need to realize that.
7. Applicable Prayers for Divorce
If you've a basis for divorce, look at the article “The Essence of my message regarding separation of Man and Woman {Divorce}” at https://www.ETIMin.org/essence-of-message-separation-man-woman for all the prayers that are necessary to bring about a full divorce. So that’s not only just the divorce itself, it's cutting the one-flesh bond, it's cutting the sole ties, it's cutting the vows, it's cutting the replication of spirits, etc., etc.
There are also prayers relating to one-flesh bonds formed without orgasm and without vaginal intercourse.
I hope that this article has helped if you are in any way impacted by the matters discussed here. I suggest that you share this article with children who are on the point of becoming sexually active BEFORE they lose their virginity or even fool around sexually.
It's important to understand that just because you decide you want to divorce doesn't mean you're going to get the divorce, and we're going to talk about that in a little bit more detail with the next section of this broadcast. But for now, I would really encourage you, even if you've gone back, and think you've divorced people you had sex within the early part of your life and you're still in in lack, then you need to go back and double check, get on your knees before Father, fast and pray if necessary, and make sure that those divorces have actually been granted, make sure that the one-flesh bonds have actually been cut because if they're not, you're going to continue in lack. There are other things that can cause lack, but this is a biggy.
Unrighteous “Divorce” is Treachery
Following through on the previous article about the “Implications of Careless Sexual Activity” (https://www.etimin.org/implications-of-careless-sexual-activity), further ramifications in those situations have become evident. Specifically that it is NOT easy to cut the one-flesh bonds resulting from careless sexual activity and that attempts to do this unrighteously amount to Treachery and will fail. These issues are discussed below.
1. Unrighteous Divorce is “Putting Away” and is Treachery
The first thing to understand is that unrighteous “Divorce” is NOT Divorce, it is “Putting Away” and is violence and forbidden by Yah. What follows is an analysis that I have only come to understand in the last week or so (at the time of writing which is a couple of months ago).
Consider Malachi 2:16 “For Yah the Eternally Self-Existing {the LORD}, the Mighty One {God} of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith Yah the Eternally Self-Existing of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.” (Derived from the King James Version).
So this is little understood. People say that Yah hates divorce. Yah does not hate divorce. If one party has dealt unrighteously as broken covenant and there is a basis for a true divorce, Yah will grant divorce. But if it's just that as in the example we've just been reading about the man wakes up one day and says, this is not working, I need to get rid of this woman, it's not going to work folks. It's really not going to work, and we'll see more about that in a minute.
See also Matthew 19:9 “And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.” (King James Version). In this context “adultery” also speaks of treachery and covenant breaking and it is apparent that the woman that is put away is NOT free to covenant with another, in other words, that the one-flesh bond has NOT been cut.
So, the bottom line is that a man who puts away his covenant woman for NO reason or for some superficial reason is committing Treachery against her and will be judged accordingly AND that they are still viewed as joined in the Court of Heaven.
In a recent situation that I am aware of, a woman who was deeply in love with, and in strong covenant, with a man was put away on the basis of a momentary disagreement. She suffered massive spiritual and emotional trauma that has had a huge impact on her. So the violence is VERY real.
Again, these are things that I've sort of understood at some basic level for many years. But these two situations that I'm talking about now have really brought home to me in a very direct manner how fundamentally these principles apply and how traumatic, unrighteous divorce putting away is. I read about it many years ago, really didn't understand it in the way I've come to understand it through these situations that I'm just talking about now.
2. Case Study 1 – Clandestine Sex was Treachery
Referring to the article on Careless Sex, the first case study referred to a man who consummated a covenant with a second woman without the knowledge of his first woman and legal wife. What I have just realized just before writing the article is that the covenant with the first woman was a monogamous covenant by verbal agreement and cemented by a Church Wedding which is inherently monogamous. By going behind his legal wife’s back the man concerned committed treachery against her. The second woman, knowing that the man was legally married and inherently in a monogamous covenant ALSO committed treachery against that woman.
Subsequently the married woman breached her covenant with the man and he suffered a massive breakdown. I have just realized that this breach was a JUDGMENT for the treachery of the man with the second woman towards the wife. The man subsequently legally divorced the wife and she returned to the United States. It is unclear whether the divorce was approved in the Court of Heaven but she eventually got into major error and died (was taken) about three years ago finally ending that Covenant and One-Flesh bond.
The resulting divided house and major financial lack was a judgment on the man for his treachery and, accordingly, Father did NOT speak to the man to correct him.
Folks, these are deep things. We live in a society or many of us live in a society where this sort of odd sexual dalliance, the odd one-night stand or whatever is sort of almost viewed by many as just one of those things that happen. You meet somebody, you're attracted to him/her, next thing you know you're in bed and, well, that's just the way it is, not a big deal, say sorry, repent, move on. Folks, it's not like that at all! A man and a woman or two men or two women make love once with orgasm is a covenant, is a one-flesh bond. It's going to bring you judgment if it's unrighteous, if it's clandestine, whatever, if there's a second party involved, and the three people are not in total agreement with one another, it's going to give rise to problems.
3. Case Study 2 – Clandestine Sex was Treachery
In the case of Case Study 2 where the man had an existing covenant, albeit a covenant of sharing, he consummated with the second woman without disclosing to her that he had an existing covenant and one-flesh bond and without disclosing to his first covenant woman that he was planning to do this. The reality is that the consummation took place suddenly and in an unplanned way because of intense attraction between the man and woman. This act of consummation constituted treachery against the first woman AND the second woman.
The ongoing lack of finances and non-disclosure of the sin was judgment against the man and again Father kept silent.
The situation was further complicated by the fact that some years earlier the second woman had taken a vow of Celibacy before Yah. By consummating with the man she broke covenant with Yah, committed treachery against Yah and the resulting financial lack was a judgment on her for her transgression.
Many years ago, I wrote about in the context of a man and woman that applies however, but it's focused on man and woman. Many years ago, I wrote off the importance of sitting down for hours and sharing exactly what you believe all the details of your business situation, your work situation, your personal situation, etc., etc., etc., with a prospective life partner and only consummating once you assure that there was complete agreement about the way you're going to live life together with an understanding that once you'd consummated, there was no going back. The men in these two case studies did not do that.
4. Case Study 2 – Kneejerk “Divorce” was Treachery
Continuing case study 2, when the man realized that the house was divided his kneejerk reaction was to divorce the first woman because he was in a business relationship with the second woman and also deeply in love with her. He had NO legal basis to divorce the first woman but did it nonetheless. His unrighteous treachery caused huge emotional and spiritual damage to the first woman and the “divorce” was NOT granted resulting in the situation discussed in the previous article where the house was divided – again Father did NOT say anything to the man because the man knew better.
So certainly in a lot of western society, things today are such that people think because divorce is legally now quite attainable, quite easy, that if they have a bit of a row, bit of a disagreement or they've "grown apart" that well, we'll just get divorced and find somebody else. That's fine if you're an unbeliever, it's probably fine if you're a nominal believer. It's not fine if you're a committed believer. Why do I say that? If you're an unbeliever, the Forces of Darkness don't give a hoot what you do. If you're a nominal believer, the Forces of Darkness don't give a hoot what you do. If you are significantly committed believers, the Forces of Darkness are going to rub their hands with glee and they're going to look at everything they can do to take your finances apart. They can put hindering spirits wherever they can and generally interfere with your finances, and I'll talk more about that probably in another broadcast.
5. Case Study 2 – Further Kneejerk “Divorce” -- MORE Treachery
Because of the above, the man erroneously believed himself to be in covenant ONLY with the second woman. As explained in the previous article this was NOT the case and so the divided house with the man and two women continued and the lack continued.
The man then picked a fight with the second woman because she did not want to enter into a Civil Partnership or Marriage contract, blamed her for dividing the house, and summarily “divorced” her. Coming on top of a situation where they had made love dozens of times and spent over 2,000 days online on Zoom every day for five years such that there was a massive love-bond this caused MASSIVE spiritual and emotional damage to the woman that she may never fully recover from and which has done massive damage to the relationship. The “divorce” was NOT granted in the Court of Heaven and, as mentioned in the previous article, the divided house and the financial lack continued. Father continued to be silent waiting for the man to recognize his error and course correct.
Folks, it's important to understand if you're a committed believer and you're a mature believer, Father is not going to help you and guide you and correct you the way He did when you were a young believer. It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking, "Well, when I first started walking with Father, He used to guide me every step of the way and constantly corrected me when I made mistakes." You reach a point of maturity folks where Father says I've taught you all these things that you know enough, you know me enough, you don't need me to tell you. And I'm not going to tell you because at the end of the day, you're going to be judged on how you live your life and if you can't live your life properly, and you do stupid things like these two situations I've described, you're going to have to bear the consequences.
Going back to the case study...
There were further incidents of knee-jerk divorce that were ALSO NOT granted causing FURTHER hurt and harm to both women and bringing judgment on the man.
A few weeks after the above “divorce” with the second woman the man experienced extreme pain in his abdomen for over a week and then a few weeks later extreme pain in his right hip. The condition continues and he believes this is judgment for his sin described above. Added to this, having heard Father Yah clearly for many years it appears that this man is only hearing Yah partially or perhaps NOT at all, certainly NOT in the area of his relationships – he is stumbling around trying to figure out what to do. It is a taxing and distressing situation as he tries to rectify his mistakes and course correct.
Folks, I hope even if you're not personally involved in anything like I'm talking about today, if you've only had sex with one person and you're living with that person today and you're in perfect harmony, then this doesn't apply to you. If you've had sex with more than one person, if you've terminated the relationship hastily, then you need to look very carefully at what I'm teaching today because it almost certainly applies to you. And if on top of that, you're a committed believer and you're in financial lack, then I would go so far as to say with almost full certainty that what I'm talking about today applies to you. You cannot expect Father to be faithful when you have been unfaithful.
6. Case Study 2 – Unintended Consequences
The unintended consequence of the above is that the man in case study 2 was one-flesh with both women, they both have intense love for him, he has intense love for them and neither of them want to share. He and the second woman are in deep financial lack and struggling to survive financially. Prior to this he had again tried to cut ties with the first woman and does NOT know what to do to rectify the situation.
Update: The most recent development is that the first woman in case 2 has declared in writing that she will not share and the man has gone formally to the Court of Heaven for Divorce and issued a Certificate of Divorce. He is trusting that this has finalized the situation but still has to deal with the huge hurt and damage that he has caused to the second woman.
Folks, I can't stress enough how damaging these things are. I'd seen it sort of at an intellectual level many years ago, but it didn't sink in. The truth is I'm the man in both stories, and I've had to repent deeply I'm still living with trying to work out the consequences of what I've done. And I have to say to you from deep personal experience, don’t follow in my footsteps. If you find yourself in a situation that even vaguely approximates what I've been talking about today, please email me, I'll talk you through it, I'll pray with you; do not act hastily or rationally. Do not issue a divorce until you're sure that it's applicable. There are things that you can do in certain circumstances if you're not living with someone to possibly get a divorce. It's not clear cut and you need to work it through carefully.
7. Treacherous Divorce is Massively Destructive
The bottom line is that Treacherous Divorce is MASSIVELY DESTRUCTIVE.
And that, as a Believer, you should ONLY consummate a sexual relationship after detailed discussion of your intentions, ensuring that both parties are in FULL agreement with regard to the terms of the Covenant and the parameters of the relationship and ensuring that if there are more than two people involved that ALL parties are FULLY informed, FULLY consulted and FULLY on-board BEFORE consummation.
Divorce for invalid reasons, divorce in anger and kneejerk reaction will NOT be granted but will do huge emotional and spiritual damage that may never be recovered and should therefore NEVER be attempted. If there is REAL treachery within a relationship then that should be dealt with by a formal written warning to correct the behaviour and get the relationship back on track coupled with sober discussion of the issues and the impacts. At least three written warnings should be given at intervals of at least a few weeks and IF that fails to correct the destructive behaviour then ONLY at that point may one consider going to Father Yah to inquire as to whether He will allow divorce. Even then Father Yah may tell one to sort out the problems and continue with the union.
It's so important to understand folks that making love creates this massive spiritual structure of one-flesh bond, love bond, and all the other elements that are discussed in the article on the Virgin's Covenant and also in the article on the divorce. You should not break a relationship unless there is no other way forward. Really, really so important.
Conclusion
I hope that from these two articles you will see that ill-considered, hasty sexual union is TOTALLY out of the question and that one should discuss fully, engage ALL existing partners and ONLY consummate a sexual relationship once one is absolutely certain that ALL parties are entirely in agreement. If you cannot achieve agreement then do NOT consummate.
By extension, summarily putting away a lifetime sexual covenant partner {wife} for NO good reason, and there are only a narrow range of valid reasons, is treachery and causes massive violent spiritual and emotional consequences.
If you have had sex with anyone who is NOT in a close intimate relationship with you today, these two articles potentially have a direct bearing on your situation.
These situations are complex and are not easy to unravel and can have massively adverse spiritual and financial consequences.
Note that this ONLY applies to committed Believers, for nominal Believers and unbelievers this is irrelevant, the Forces of Darkness have NO interest in your situation.
If you find yourself in such a situation and you require counsel you are welcome to email me and we can meet on Zoom, Skype or telephone for me to advise you and pray appropriately with you. My email address is James@EndTimeIssueMinistries.org
Please, before you rush out and do something, contact me, let's talk it through. I'll advise you on the basis of harsh personal experience, pray with you as appropriate. And please understand, there are situations where if you took a woman's virginity, 10, 20, 30, 40, 50 years ago, you may have to go looking for her and tell her that she's your true wife or if you're a woman, go looking for him and tell him that he's your true husband. And you may find, you will probably find that person will tell you to get lost, at which case point you have a basis to go and ask for divorce, but you've got to go through the correct procedure. You can't just suddenly say, oh goodness, you know what? I had sex with so and so 40 years ago when we were 14 years old or 12 years old or 18 years old or whatever it is that youngsters first have sex with these days, and I'm going to divorce him. It's as you've seen, it's not necessarily going to work.
In fact, if it was a virgin's covenant, unless something happened, give a basis for it to be broken, it's probably not going to be easy to break it. And you've got a follow due process and the article on Divorce goes through that in quite a bit of detail. I think that's all I can share with you on this. I just want to wrap up here. All of these things, you may say, well, James, why are you spending so much time on this? The answer to that is if you're really seeking to serve Father and you have sexual connections like those I've talked about, you need to do something about them because they're holding you back. Maybe you're not in financial lack, in which case some of this doesn't apply. But if you're in financial lack and you're a committed believer, please look at this carefully. It only takes one instance of sex, 10 minutes, 20 minutes to turn your life on its head. Please contact me if that's you.
What is the state of YOUR relationship with the Almighty Creator?
I would like to ask you to critically examine where YOU are relative to the Almighty Creator.
Do you talk to Him constantly throughout the day and allow Him to lead you in every possible way?
Are you conscious of Him at all times?
Do you worship Him at every opportunity?
Do you count Him your FRIEND?
Have you clearly and unambiguously heard HIM CALL YOU FRIEND?
If not, you're FAILING in your life purpose and you will be bitterly disappointed when you die.
It's so important to understand that the only reason the Universe exists, the only reason the Solar System exists, the only reason that planet Earth exists, the only reason that YOU exist is to have a Deep Personal Relationship with the Almighty Creator and become His friend. Anything less than that is a misfire, you're falling short. You're going to be bitterly disappointed when you die. It doesn't matter your age, your gender, your financial situation, your level of education, your race, the colour of your hair, the colour of your eyes, the colour of your skin, all of that is irrelevant. Irrespective of those things, Father Yah, the Almighty Creator wants a Deep Personal Relationship with you. I want to challenge you if you've not already decided to walk that road, walk that road. Start walking that road today. Step out with Him. Pray to Him to lead you and guide you.
Wrapping Up
Key Documents and a Video – Main Menu Webpages
“Compendium of Important Articles.”
A video “Why seek relationship?”
Article “Miracle of Yahooshua’s Death.”
“The Creator Desires a Deep Personal Relationship with YOU.”
“Seven Components in Drawing Close to the Creator.”
“Recommended Worship.”
“The Creator's Name is Yah the Eternally Self-Existing.”
"Where will YOU Spend Eternity?"
“The Essence of my Message to Christians.” And also to Muslims, Jews, and other faiths.
All of this available at www.EndTimeIssueMinistries.org.
Transcripts of nearly all teachings in this series are available on the Website at the bottom on the “Radio” page.
Recordings of nearly all of the teachings Broadcast so far are available on the Radio page and they are all available at www.RelationshipWithCreatorRadio.com. Click on “The Show” on the top Menu and then “Podcasts” on the dropdown or search on Google for "Relationship with Creator Radio."
Books constituting a compilation of most writings published since 1998 until May 2019 are available near the bottom of the menu at the “Compilation of Most Writings” page.
I publish regular email articles – email me at James@EndTimeIssueMinistries.org to be added to the list, or to seek counsel or prayer or give me feedback. I give weekly teaching Zoom call every Saturday at 10:30 am Eastern Time USA, 3:30 pm UK time, 5:30 pm South African time. The Zoom link is 7032371115. Passcode 123484.
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Close
Thank you for listening!
Please send me your questions to James@EndTimeIssueMinistries.org. Please email me to join the mailing list, also at James@EndTimeIssueMinistries.org.
If you decide to draw close to the Almighty, please let me know and we can connect by Skype, Zoom, email or telephone so that I can help you with your journey.
I hope to connect with you again next week when we will continue to explore how to become a Friend of the Creator.
Work with me to make a way for Yahooshua to return in victory at the end of the millennium and make his enemies his footstool.
Folks, just to reiterate, it doesn't matter who you are, what your personal circumstances are right now, Father wants a Deep Personal Relationship with You. Pray with me, "Father Yah in the name of Yahooshua I want to become your friend. I choose to become your friend. I ask you to help me and to guide me. I ask you to open doors and close doors. I ask you to bring people into my life and take people out of my life. Help me to know what to read, where to go, who to speak to, and help me to draw really close to you. I ask this in the name of Yahooshua. Amen."
So there you are folks, irrespective of your race, your colour, your creed, or anything, you can become a Friend of the Almighty. So I just want to say goodnight to you and go well.
Goodnight!
Dr James A Robertson
Emissary of Yah
Broadcast Friday 4, February 2022