I regularly come into contact with people who think that Yah ordained monogamy and that it is "Yah's best" or "Yah's perfect will".  This article seeks to set the record straight and make clear why it is that the doctrine of monogamy is false and why Yah hates it. 

Women are born with a hymen, a membrane covering the opening to the vagina which ruptures with the shedding of blood on first intercourse.  Women only have one hymen and it can only be ruptured and shed blood once.

Yah created women from the beginning with a hymen and therefore whatever the hymen teaches us about the covenant relationship between man and woman, this thing we call "marriage", is definitive.

In Genesis 2:24 we read that a man shall "cleave" to his woman – that is cut open his woman by splitting her open in her cleft – similar to cutting meat with a meat CLEAVER.

In Deutoronomy 22 we read that a woman must be a virgin on the day she consummates a covenant union {marriage} and that if she is not it is adultery and she is to be stoned to death.  We also read that if a man takes the virginity of a woman by force he may not put her away {divorce her} all his days.

Genesis 15 describes how Yah cut covenant with Abram – Abram took some animals and split them in two along the backbone and laid them out before Yah and Yah "walked between the halves".  In Jeremiah 34 we read of people cutting a covenant by walking between the halves of a calf.

On reflection there is no particular explanation for the form of a woman's cleft other than that in appearance it approximates the two halves of a covenant animal and that the act of first sexual intercourse with the shedding of blood sees the man "walking" in the blood between the two halves of the covenant organ.

Thus we see that from the very beginning Father Yah had covenant in mind when He designed the sexual organs of man and woman.

Note also that man has a foreskin which is NOT affected at all by first intercourse but which Yah commands to be cut off in circumcision as a covenant act dedicating the man to Yah – also with the shedding of blood and also only possible once.

Thus it is apparent that a woman can only cut covenant with ONE man and beyond that intercourse with further men is adultery and a sin punishable by death whereas a man can cut covenant with any number of women.

It is therefore apparent that from the very beginning of the creation of man and woman Yah hand in mind for more than one woman to cut covenant with the same man.

The doctrine of monogamy is therefore clearly false and clearly not from Yah and, since Yah has never removed the hymen Yah has never changed in his intention for more than one woman to covenant with one man.

It is an abomination in the sight of Yah and great sin to suggest otherwise.  If you want to practice monogamy you must restrict yourself sexually accordingly and teach others to do the same.

Fundamental to this point is that there is NO SUCH THING as "sex before marriage" – there is either sex as a covenant act or there is adultery. 

It is important to understand that monogamy as a widespread practice only came about for the first time in the Roman empire around the time of Yahooshua.  It was accompanied with widespread divorce, prostitution and fornication generally and, in fact, is the essence of what Yahooshua was speaking against when he spoke against divorce.

Monogamy was first legislated in the Christian Church about 600 AD by the Roman Emperor Justinian at about the same time that Yah sent Mohammed to speak correction with regard to the errors and sins of the Christian church.  Again, as in the present age, monogamy was associated with divorce, prostitution, pornography and fornication generally.

Monogamy was only legislated in the Jewish faith about 900 AD in response to persecution by the pagan, monogamous Christian church.

It is important to recognize that IF it were Yah's will that man and woman were monogamous it would have NOT been necessary for men to legislate it.

In 1995 I listened to a message bemoaning the fact that roughly two thirds of all marriages in western society, INCLUDING so-called "Christian" marriages ended in divorce.

I was deeply concerned by this and immediately prayed "Father, why is this?".  That night Yah started to answer me by showing me in Exodus 21:10 that it was permissible for a man to take more than one woman and He confirmed this through Timothy 3:2 and 3:10 which apparently limits an overseer {Bishop} to one wife and therefore by extension indicates that other men at the time had more than one woman – it  turns out that this is a translation error and the verse does NOT in fact limit an overseer to one woman.

In the days and years that followed Yah spoke to me extensively about the errors of the Christian church with regard to marriage and in 1998 I wrote the book "The Scriptural Definition of Marriage – What the Bible REALLY says about marriage"— email me if you would like a copy.

Subsequently Yah took me through a very intense and very painful practical learning curve relating to the way He intended the covenant union between man and woman to be and showed me how totally corrupt the teachings of the Christian church are.

Yesterday and again this morning Yah said to me very clearly "I hate the doctrine of monogamy" and, when I asked for clarification He said "I hate divorce and since monogamy is the number one cause of divorce it is logical that by extension I hate monogamy". 

So we see that Yah programmed man to desire to cover more than one woman.

Cursory study of the book {the bible} reveals that almost all mighty men of Yah in the book and, in fact, almost all mighty men generally had more than one woman {wife}.  Solomon went over the top but the vast majority had a number of women and those women fully accepted plural marriage as Yah's perfect will in their lives and willingly shared a good and powerful man rather than covenant with a less suitable man.

Thus, it is perfectly normal for a man who is in contact with a single woman to want to cover her and it is perfectly normal for her to desire his covering, EVEN when he is already in covenant with a woman {married} and, in Yah's sight this is perfectly acceptable and, in fact pleasing – so there is no way that Yah is going to stop the man or the woman from consummating a perfectly natural relationship in the sight of Yah.

For the same reason, even if the man is NOT a believer, it is entirely natural for him to desire covenant with more than one woman.

Satan constantly uses the false doctrine of monogamy to trip up leaders of Yah's people and government leaders by making them wrong for desiring to cover more than one woman.  It is an abomination in a sight of Yah.

If one chooses monogamy it is up to the man to exercise self-control and restraint and not get into a situation with a single woman where the desire to cover her and her desire to be covered take over and results in consummation of a relationship that they are not able to carry through.

I have written repeatedly over the last more than ten years of the reality that seven out of eight believers in the body of true believers are women.

I wrote recently that of the 5,000 people on earth closest to Yah, seven out of eight are women and that of those women half do not have men and of those that do have men most of those men are further from Yah than the woman and they are therefore pulling many of those women away from Yah.

Satan knows this statistic and gets great satisfaction from the huge falling away and great heartache and confusion that results from the false doctrine of monogamy.

Satan also gets great satisfaction from the great sin of the women who have a man who refuse to share their man with other women who desperately need a man and / or refuse to allow their man to take more than one woman even though he clearly needs more than one woman in his life.

Yah was NOT confused when He created man and woman such that seven times more women than men would seek Yah and it is a great abomination in the sight of Yah that men and women teach otherwise.

Many years ago Yah showed me that the role of women is to stabilize and underpin and support their covenant man and in a vision He showed me this as a buttress supporting a tower and also as a guy rope stabilizing a mast and He also showed me this as the fins on a rocket.  With less than three buttresses, guy ropes or stabilizing fins most men will fall over spiritually under attack and many never get back up.

With three or more women, who do not then have to be that strong, just about any man will stand under an onslaught, with less than three women most men will fall over.

The bottom line is that unless a woman is extremely strong in the service of Yah and totally committed to and aligned with her man it is EXTREMELY DIFFICULT for a single woman to buttress her man.  In my case, in seeking a suitable woman to enter into a monogamous union Yah had to bring a woman from a third of the way round the world in order to support me in the work that Yah has called me to do because I had found that I could not find women who were able to share because of the level of indoctrination of believing women.

Another extension of the lie of monogamy is the lie that young women at puberty are not fit to enter into covenant with a man resulting in the belief that Yah was confused in creating women to reach sexual maturity at age about 12 or 13 while only permitting them to "marry" at age 16 or 18 with the result that two thirds of young women lose their virginity before age 18 so that when they DO "marry" they are not joining themselves to the man who took their virginity and are actually entering into adultery with the result that the unions are cursed from the beginning and most eventually end in divorce.

The issue is that false teachings keep young women from guidance and teaching that enables them to mature emotionally and psychologically at a sufficiently early age in order to enter into covenant at the age that Yah originally intended.

Given the legal constraints it is vital that young women are told the truth and assisted to keep themselves pure until they are able to legally join themselves to a suitable man.  Note that parents should select the right man and if a woman does not have both parents to assist her she should seek Yah's guidance to find the right man for her to contract with as helpmeet (helper meet to, conformed to, her man). 

One of the lies associated with the lie of monogamy is the lie of the "one life partner" – this lie has it that there is ONE perfect partner for every human being and therefore, by extension, having "married" if something happens that a person finds someone else that seems to be "more suitable" or something happens that shows that the present partner is NOT "as suitable as I thought" and that either way divorce is acceptable.

Fact of the matter is that once one has entered into covenant Yah expects that to be for life and that it is possible for the union between any man and woman to succeed if they put Yah first and put Yah's principles of headship and submission first. 

It is vital to understand that the lie of monogamy is directly associated with prostitution and pornography.

Many men have the sexual capacity to satisfy more than one woman and most women do not have the sexual capacity to fully satisfy their man.  As a consequence many men turn to pornography and / or prostitution to release their sexual tension.

Once they do this they open themselves to massive demonic infestation through transferred spirits, unclean one-flesh bonds and soul ties, misplaced love, salt covenants with Satan, etc, etc.  These in turn open them up for Satanists, Witches and other servants of Satan to use these connections to destroy servants of Yah, tear down their ministries, destroy their marriages, etc, etc.

Fundamentally Yah did NOT create men to be monogamous and therefore it is a reality that many men forced into monogamy will at some stage fall into prostitution, pornography, extra-marital affairs.

One of the major consequences of the false doctrine of monogamy is that women who are servants of Yah and who are in covenant with a man {married} are threatened by single women because they fear losing their man.

They accuse the single women of being manipulative for desiring a covering when they could be inviting the single woman to accept the covering of their man which would be the natural response in a society in which plural marriage was the norm.

Monogamy is embedded in Western, Christian, society through fairy tales such as Snow White, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty as well as with toys like Barbie and Ken, etc.

All of these role models present a perfect world as being made up of a perfect monogamous couple.  People happily refer to them as "fairy tales" and refer to a "fairy tale romance" not realizing that faeries are demons and so these are demon tales.

1 Timothy 4:1 refers to monogamy as a "doctrine of devils".

The impact of the early childhood programming associated with monogamy is that any woman who has been brought up in these societies has a huge negative reaction to the idea of sharing her man or to any single woman who is perceived as a threat.

Notwithstanding all the above it is a reality today that plural marriage is to all intents and purposes impossible to make work today and so it is necessary to choose to enter into a monogamous union recognizing the constraints and thereafter CHOOSE to operate within those constraints.

In doing this it is vital to avoid putting unrighteous judgments on others because they are not programmed by Yah in terms of monogamy and also to have compassion to those who are disadvantaged and prejudiced by the lies associated with monogamy.

Because of the complexities of one flesh bonds, soul ties, etc it is so that Yah has said to me that the false doctrine of monogamy will send more souls to the lake of Fire for adultery than any other false doctrine of man will cause people to break the Ten Commandments.

Conclusion

The truth about the way Yah intended man and woman to covenant are challenging in today's society but it is vital to understand them in order to conduct ourselves appropriately within the social context in which we find ourselves.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

I keep encountering people who talk about "sex before marriage" as though there IS such a thing.

Fact is that before Daddy Yah there is either:

• Sexual intercourse with a virgin, widow or truly divorced woman which equals a lifetime covenant before Yah, which approximates this pagan thing we call marriage but can take place with many women to one man

• The same following some form of ceremony or public taking of vows, etc – which hardly ever happens today, generally the couple have intercourse before the ceremony

• Sexual intercourse with any other woman is adultery and if she has had multiple partners, fornication – the vast majority of legal / church marriages today – guaranteed a part in the lake of fire and brimstone which is the second death – where the vast majority of the population of the world are headed unless they are told the truth and come to repentance (and, by the way, a part in the lake of fire for the pastor or magistrate or other person who performs the ceremony and purports to stand in the place of Yah)

• That is it folks, NO other options

Conclusion

I hope this gives you clarity on the sex before marriage issue.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

I have received a number of inquiries recently, some relating to sexual issues and others relating to financial issues.

It is clear that most people do not understand that these issues are related and it is also clear that there is not much understanding of the power of the one flesh bond, the sexual bond that comes into existence as a consequence of sexual orgasm.

These principles affect almost everyone on the planet excluding only those who have been truly celibate for their ENTIRE lives.

There are a number of references to the one flesh bond which is first cited in Genesis 2:24 which speaks of a man cutting (cleaving) into the cleft of the woman and the two becoming one flesh.

This passage is cited in Matthew 19: 5 and 6 where Yahooshua speaks against divorce.

1 Corinthians 6:16 warns against becoming one flesh with a harlot through intercourse because the body is the temple of the Spirit of Yah.

Ephesians 5:31 and 32 speak of a great mystery and equate the one flesh bond with the infilling of human beings with the Spirit of Yah.

All of these passages give insight into the subject but the total subject is much more complex than is at first apparent.

It is also widely misunderstood; in particular a one flesh bond is NOT a soul tie although it appears that in some cases Yah in His mercy answers requests to cut the one flesh bond prayed using soul tie language.

In the sections that follow I will set out some critical things that just about every person on the planet needs to know and which in my experience just about all believers and followers of Yah are woefully ignorant of.

In its simplest form the one flesh bond comes into existence when a man and woman engage in sexual intercourse and the man experiences an orgasm and ejaculates.

When he ejaculates he not only squirts out semen but he squirts out a part of his spirit which flows up the channel provided in the core of the spirit of the woman and attaches to her spiritual heart.

This is an unbreakable bond that can only be broken under very specific circumstances with very specific prayers that are only effective under those circumstances.

Where the woman experiences an orgasm she also ejaculates of her spirit over the spirit of the man to attach to his heart in the same way.

In spiritual terms the one flesh bond is an infinitely elastic and extensible tie that will tie the man and woman together even if they are on opposite sides of the planet.

The more times either or both achieve orgasm the stronger the one flesh bond becomes until in the spirit realm there is NO distance between them and they are no longer John and Mary but John-and-Mary as one spiritual entity.

Where they experience an intense simultaneous orgasm the one flesh bond will grow rapidly but even the weakest orgasm that is hardly felt physically will establish or add to the one flesh bond.

In spiritual legal terms a life time covenant {marriage} comes into existence when a man penetrates a virgin with the shedding of blood in which case a blood covenant is formed or, in the absence of a hymen {virginity} when male ejaculation takes place and semen or even lubricant, which contains salt, is transferred to the woman in which case a salt covenant is formed.  The lubricant and ejaculate of the woman also contain salt.  Where both shedding of blood and exchange of fluids happens then both covenants are formed.

The use of a condom does NOT prevent a covenant being formed.

In addition, with first ejaculation by the man an unbreakable one flesh bond is formed and the man and woman are tied together for life whether they are permitted to join in the sight of Yah or not.

Any human being can form as many one flesh bonds as situations give rise to.

Thus if the woman is in adultery the one flesh bond is still formed.

If the woman is a harlot the one flesh bond is still formed.

If the man is already joined to another woman the one flesh bond is still formed.

Why is the one flesh bond important?

The following sections address a number of factors:

There is significant spiritual power associated when a man and woman have a one flesh bond.

If they are in a strictly exclusive (monogamous or polygynous) relationship where neither of them have ever formed a one flesh bond with anyone else or where the appropriate prayers have been prayed AND they are in deep harmony and agreement their prayers have a power and authority which is dramatic.

If they are not in harmony the damage can be intense.

However, this same power is available to two men who are one flesh with one another, or two women, or to a group of men and women who are all one flesh.

A group of people who are all one flesh are massively powerful spiritually if they are aligned and this is why Satanists and secret cults engage in partner swopping, orgies, etc to tap into this power.

Proverbs 12:4 identifies a phenomenon that it refers to as being LIKE rottenness in the bones caused by a contentious and fault finding woman {wife} who brings shame to her husband.

This spiritual phenomenon has a physical manifestation in terms of which the man feels terrible, weakened, angry, out of sorts.

Some wife beating results from women who do this to their man.

It is vital that there is a clear understanding of the role of man and woman in a covenant union and that both perform those roles properly, refer the article 2011.01.12 "Brother can you spare a dime?" for more discussion on this topic and the subject of financial lack.

The spiritual damage that results from an illegitimate one flesh bond or an unwise one flesh bond or from a man and woman who are not in harmony is huge.

If an anointed man or woman joins themselves to one who is not anointed the anointing will dissipate in the anointed one in order to flow into the one who is not anointed and there will be an averaging of the level of anointing.

Anointing is likened unto water – where there is a one flesh bond the anointing flows between the parties who are joined to reach the same level in each person.

If an anointed one joins themselves to one who is joined to others who are not anointed the anointing will drain out of them just like pulling the plug out of a bath of water – in moments they will lose all their spiritual power.

If an anointed one is joined to another and that other person joins themselves to another one the same effect will be achieved – this is one of the reasons why adultery is such a massive issue.

Note also that if a woman joins herself to another man, apart from her covenant man {husband} it is likely that a spirit of jealousy will come upon the man and he will become angry and irritable for reasons he cannot explain (Numbers 5).

So, if a man or woman is one flesh with one or more others who are one flesh with others they are joined into a spiritual network which will drain the anointing out of them and align them with all the evil that may be present in the others they are indirectly joined to.

Such sexual union only has to happen once for lasting damage to be done to an anointed one unless the one flesh bond is cut off.

In addition to the problems mentioned above an anointed one who is one flesh with others who are not living with them and not in agreement will experience financial and other problems.

Even if a man and woman who are exclusively one flesh with one another are not in perfect spiritual alignment and harmony they will suffer financial loss.

The MORE INTENSELY you are seeking to serve Yah the WORSE the problem will be, it works in the reverse direction because the forces of darkness know they can use this no matter what the right standing of your life with Yah in other areas – a divided house WILL FALL!

Hindering spirits will gain a legal right over their finances and obstruct income, cause business opportunities to go wrong and operate in all sorts of ways to cause financial and material loss.

Hindering spirits gain a right the moment a man and his woman or women are not in harmony with him – the moment they are pulling in different directions spiritually.

So, where a group of people who are one flesh and align themselves in the same direction will experience great spiritual power so a group of people – two or more – who are one flesh and are not in alignment will experience great spiritual weakness and loss.

I have been corresponding with a man who is a deeply committed believer who is one flesh with a woman who he deserted in his youth and who has joined herself to another man and he cannot understand why his finances are under attack.  Until he resolves the issues around the one flesh bond and either gains permission from Yah to cut the second woman off or she comes back under his covering and the tie with her new husband is cut off he will be operating under a financial curse and will suffer loss.

4.  How? – the not so obvious